F.C. v. B.C.

Husband and Wife appeared for the hearing on January 18, 2013. Wife was represented by counsel at this hearing, but Husband appeared pro se. Wife and Wife’s mother testified on behalf of Wife at the hearing, and additionally, Wife called Husband’s paramour, E.W., as a witness.^[1] Husband did not testify, and did not call any witnesses on his own behalf. After hearing the evidence, the Commissioner stated that she would only consider the testimony of Wife and Wife’s mother in making her decision. The Commissioner found by a preponderance of the evidence that Husband had committed abuse under Title 10, Section 1041 of the Delaware Code by engaging in a course of alarming or distressing conduct likely to cause fear or emotional distress, and conduct a reasonable person under the circumstances would find threatening or harmful. The Commissioner entered the Order granting. a PFA against Husband on January 18, 2013. The PFA protects both Wife and the children, and orders that Husband may not commit any acts of abuse towards Wife or the minor children.

Husband filed the present Request for Review on January 28, 2013, objecting to the Commissioner’s January 18, 2013 Order on numerous grounds. In particular, Husband argues that: (1) The Commissioner erred in her finding of domestic violence by a preponderance of the evidence; (2) Wife lied under oath^[2] ; (3) The Commissioner disregarded witness’s statements that defended Husband from allegations of abuse; (4) Husband was not afforded an opportunity for a continuance to obtain legal representation; (5) Wife’s attorney entered her appearance the morning of the hearing; (6) The Commissioner did not acknowledge Husband’s lack of legal representation; (7) No evidence was presented by Wife which substantiated her allegations of abuse “in her ex parte statement on her sworn statement”^[3] ; and (8) Wife did not present any police reports documenting any allegations of domestic violence.

Standard of Review

The Delaware Code confers upon this Court appellate jurisdiction over a Commissioner’s Order. Specifically, the Code provides that “[a]ny party, except a party in default of appearance before a Commissioner, may appeal a final order of a Commissioner to a Judge of the Court.”^[4] A Commissioner’s Order may be appealed to a Judge of the Court within 30 days by filing written objections setting forth with particularity the basis of each objection of the Commissioner’s Order.^[5] From an ap

A Judge deciding an appeal from a Commissioner’s Order may accept, reject, or modify, in whole or in part, the Commissioner’s Order.^[10]

Facts

After reviewing the transcript from the January 18, 2013 hearing, the Court finds the facts in this case to be as follows: Husband and Wife separated in 2008. As of the date of the hearing, Husband was a New Castle County police officer, but was suspended due to a police report Wife had filed against Husband on December 25, 2012. Wife testified that Husband has a history of yelling and screaming when he gets upset about things, or when he does not get his way.^[11] Additionally, Wife’s mother testified that Husband has a history of screaming and yelling at Wife, and calling Wife names via the telephone, text messages, and e-mail.^[12] Prior to the parties’ separation in 2008, Husband learned that Wife was having an affair and was going to leave him.^[13] At that time, an incident occurred in the home where Husband, in his police uniform, followed Wife around and continued to yell at her while keeping his hand on his weapon.^[14] During this incident, Husband called Wife’s mother, who then called the police when she heard Husband screaming.^[15]

On December 22, 2012, Husband repeatedly sent numerous text messages to Wife regarding information unrelated to the children, despite Wife’s requests that he stop.^[16] This prompted Wife to go to Troop 7 of the Delaware State Police for advice on how to get Husband to stop sending Wife the text messages. A sergeant at Troop 7 advised Wife that if Husband continued to contact Wife about anything unrelated to the children, to advise Husband that Troop 7 had advised Wife to tell Husband that he was not to contact Wife about anything unrelated to

On December 24, 2012, Husband made repeated phone calls to Wife’s cell phone to speak with the children. Husband spoke with the parties’ son, who indicated to Husband that the parties’ daughter was in the shower, but that she would call Husband when she was out of the shower.^[19] However, Husband continued to call Wife’s cell phone, approximately five times in a ten-minute period.^[20] Each time, the parties’ son would answer and indicate to Husband that the parties’ daughter was still in the shower, and would then hang up on Husband. On the last phone call, Husband began to scream on the phone to the parties’ son, and Wife encouraged the parties’ son to hang up the phone.^[21] Wife then sent Husband a text message telling Husband not to yell at the parties’ son, and also advising him that Wife had been advised by Troop 7 to tell Husband he was not to contact Wife about anything else other than the children.^[22] From that point, Husband sent numerous and repeated text messages to Wife, prompting Wife to revisit Troop 7 that evening to file a harassment report against Husband.^[23]

When Wife went to Troop 7 on the evening of December 24, 2012, she met with another officer, who viewed her cell phone and the text messages Husband had sent Wife.^[24] This officer indicated that he would be filing a report, and would also be contacting Husband’s superiors and Husband himself to tell Husband that he was not permitted to contact Wife regarding anything other than the children.^[25] Later that evening, upon learning that Wife had gone to the police, Husband sent an e-mail to Wife and Husband’s parents, indicating that he wanted no further contact with Wife and wanted all communication between him and Wife to go through his parents.^[26]

On January 10, 2013, Husband was suspended from his position as a New Castle County police officer.^[27] On that same date, Wife was contacted by the Delaware State police, who advised her that they were planning on following through with harassment charges against Husband, and that they had been in contact with Husband’s superiors in New Castle County, who indicated that they were relieving Husband of his duties and taking his work equipment.^[28] That evening, Husband sent Wife an e-mail through his parents indicating that he did not want any future contact with his children whatsoever.^[29]

Wife testified that after Husband was suspended from his position in New Castle County, she was concerned for her safety.

Discussion

Because some of Husband’s arguments are repetitive and deal with the same legal standards, the Court will address some of Husband’s objections together.

I. The Commissioner did not err in determining BY A PREPONDERANCE OF THE EVIDENCE THAT HuSBAND COMMITTED DOMESTIC VIOLENCE

Husband first argues that the Commissioner erred in her ruling, as Wife did not prove by a preponderance of the evidence that Husband committed domestic violence. In particular, Husband also argues that during the hearing, Wife lied under oath, and the Commissioner disregarded witness statements that defended Husband from allegations of abuse. Additionally, Husband argues that Wife did not present evidence that substantiated her allegations, and did not present any police reports documenting allegations of domestic violence. The Court rejects these arguments, and finds that Wife presented sufficient evidence at the PFA hearing to prove that Husband committed an act or acts of domestic violence by a preponderance of the evidence.

Title 10, Section 1041 of the Delaware Code provides a list of eight types of conduct which constitute abuse.^[34] Section 1041 further provides that “domestic violence” means abuse perpetuated by one member against another member of the following protected classes:

a. Family, as that term is defined in § 901(12) of this title, regardless, however, of state of residence of the parties; or

b. Former spouses; persons cohabitat-ing together who are holding themselves out as a couple, with or without a child in common; persons living separate and apart with a child in common; or persons in a current or former substantive dating relationship.^[35]

The Court may grant “appropriate relief’ upon a finding by a preponderance of the evidence that the alleged domestic violence has occurred.^[36] The preponderance of the evidence standard of proof is defined as “such relevant evidence as will enable the court to determine the identity of the litigant who should prevail, the weight of the evidence tipping in favor of that litigant.”^[37]

In the present case, the Commissioner found by a preponderance of the evidence that Husband committed an act or acts of abuse against Wife pursuant to Section 1041(l)(d.) and (h.) by “engaging in a course of alarming or distressing conduct in a manner which is likely to cause fear or emotional distress”^[38] and by engaging in “any other conduct with a reasonable person under the circumstances would find threatening or harmful.”^[39] To support her decision, the Commissioner noted that the testimony established that Husband had screamed on the phone to the parties’ son, and yells and screams in person when he is angry. Additionally, Husband had sent Wife text messages repeatedly to the point where Wife sought police intervention to get the text messages to stop. Because the Commissioner found that Husband committed an act or acts of abuse against a former spouse as well as his children, pursuant to Section 1041(2), the January 18, 2013 PFA Order issued by the Commissioner articulated a finding of domestic violence.

After reviewing the transcript from the hearing, the Court finds by a preponderance of the evidence that Husband committed an act or acts of domestic violence. As stated above, the Court gives deference to the Commissioner’s findings of credibility of the parties and witnesses. In the present case, the Commissioner found the testimony of Wife and Wife’s mother regarding Wife’s allegations of abuse to be credible. Husband argues in his Request for Review that Wife lied under oath; however, Husband does not point to any specific instance in the hearing where he believes Wife was untruthful.^[40] The Court finds that it was reasonable for the Commissioner, who observed Wife testifying at the trial, to conclude that Wife was credible, and give her testimony regarding the alleged abuse by Husband substantial weight.

Husband further objects to the fact that the “Commissioner disregarded witness’ statements that defended [Husband] from allegations of abuse.”^[41] The Court rejects this argument. Again, Husband does not specify to which witness or statements he is referring. However, because the Commissioner stated on the record that she was not considering the testimony of E.W. when making her decision^[42] , the Court assumes this is the testimony to which Husband is referring. First, the Court notes that Husband did not call E.W. as a witness. Wife, who did not subpoena E.W., called E.W. as a witness since E.W. was voluntarily in the Courthouse during the hearing. In fact, at the hearing, Husband questioned whether or not E.W. actually had to testify.^[43] Further, the Commissioner, who was able to see and hear the witnesses at the hearing, was entitled to judge the credibility of each witness and determine how much weight to give to each witness’s testimony. Although the Commissioner did not specifically state on the record why she was not considering E.W.’s testimony, it was within the Commissioner’s discretion to decide how much weight to give the testimony of each witness depending on what the Commissioner found the credibility of each witness to be. As stated above, the Court will give deference to the Commissioner’s determination of the credibility of the parties and witnesses.^[44]

Husband also argues that Wife did not present any evidence that substantiated her allegations of abuse on the part of

II. There were no problems regarding Husband’s pro se representation or Wife’s representation by counsel

Husband further argues that he was not afforded a continuance of the PFA hearing in order to obtain legal representation, that the Commissioner never acknowledged Husband’s lack of legal representation, and that Wife’s attorney entered her appearance the morning of the PFA hearing. The Court finds that these arguments are without merit.

Family Court Rule of Civil Procedure 40 discusses motions for continuances in civil proceedings. In particular, the Rule provides that “all motions for continuances must be made in a timely manner and in writing to the judge or master assigned to hear the case,”^[47] however, the judge or master may consider an oral or incomplete request for a continuance “when an emergency or unforeseeable situation prevents full compliance with Rule 40(a)”^[48] . In the present case, however, Husband never made a written or oral motion to the Court for a continuance of the PFA hearing. The Temporary Ex Parte PFA Order issued on January 11, 2013 noted that a hearing on the PFA had been scheduled for January 18, 2013. Between January 11, 2013 and January 18, 2013, Husband made no written motion to the Court requesting a continuance of the PFA hearing scheduled for January 18, 2013. A review of the transcript from the January 18, 2013 hearing further indicates that Husband never even made an oral request for a continuance on the record at the onset of the hearing. If Husband wished for a continuance of the hearing in order to obtain legal representation, he should have filed a motion with the Court requesting a continuance, which the Court would have considered and either granted or denied. Husband cannot now, after being unsatisfied with the outcome of the hearing, argue that a continuance of the hearing should have been granted when Husband never requested such a continuance prior to or at the hearing.

Husband next argues that the Commissioner did not acknowledge Hus

The Family Court regularly grants flexibility to pro se litigants.^[50] Additionally, to ensure that pro se litigants are treated fairly, our Supreme Court has adopted Judicial Guidelines for Civil Hearings Involving Self-Represented Litigants in order to provide guidance to Judges to address concerns of “balancing self-represented litigants’ perceptions of procedural fairness while maintaining neutrality in the courtroom, particular where one party is self-represented and one has an attorney.”^[51] These guidelines provide suggested principles for Judges to use when conducting hearings with self-represented litigants, and state that Judges should “maintain courtroom decorum cognizant of the effect it will have on everyone in the courtroom, including self-represented litigants,”^[52] and “be cognizant that self-represented parties are generally under stress of unfamiliar environment and should attempt to ease the anxiety in the courtroom so participants are more likely to fully participate in the proceedings.”^[53]

The Commissioner provided Husband with some leniency during his cross-examination several times throughout the course of the hearing.^[54] On these instances, while conducting cross-examination of Wife, Husband testified within the context of his cross-examination questions. The Commissioner instructed Husband to rephrase his questions so as to refrain from giving testimony in the context of his questioning, but allowed Husband to continue with his line of questioning, even after he improperly testified during his cross-examination of Wife. Accordingly, there was no issue ■with Husband’s pro se representation at the hearing which would cause this Court to disturb the Commissioner’s Order.

Husband’s final argument is that Wife’s attorney entered her appearance

Conclusion

For the foregoing reasons, the Court ACCEPTS, in whole, the Commissioner’s Order dated January 18, 2013.

IT IS SO ORDERED.