Majority
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1. Breach of promise—Contract—No formal words necessary.This action is brought to recover damages for a breach of promise of marriage alleged to have been made by the defendant to the plaintiff on or about the 15th May, 1888. Whether there was such a promise was the main issue at the
There is no evidence that the defendant in so many words promised to marry the plaintiff. That, however, was not necessary. No formal language is necessary to constitute the contract to marry. If the conduct and declarations of the parties clearly indicate that they regard themselves as engaged, it is not material by what means they have arrived at that state. Homan v. Earle, 53 N. Y., 267 , 272. The meaning and intention of the parties may be inferred from their acts and declarations. Id., 271 .
Upon the part of the plaintiff it appears that in December, 1885, the defendant sought and obtained an introduction to the plaintiff, and at the first interview soon thereafter told her he had long been wishing to make her acquaintance. Thereafter, for a period of two years and upwards, he frequently went home with her from church or prayer meeting, and occasionally took her to public entertainments. In March or April, 1888, he went home with her nearly every Sunday from church, and nearly every Thursday evening from prayer meeting. Often on these occasions he stopped at her home and visited with her until ten or eleven o’clock in the evening, and sometimes later. The plaintiff usually entertained him alone in the parlor. Upon one of these occasions, in June or July, 1887, there was a conversation about a trip to Europe, from which the plaintiff omight have inferred, whether properly or not would be for the jury to say, that the defendant was contemplating a trip to Europe with the plaintiff as his wife. Upon one or more other occasions he spoke of building a house, and asked her what building lot she preferred. At an interview about the middle of May, 1888, the plaintiff told him she had overheard the remark that all he went with her for was to please himself, and see how big a fool he could make of her, and she asked him i£ that was true.
The defendant earnestly denied it, and, among other things, said he had admired her from the very first, that he had never met a young lady that he regarded more highly, and several times said he longed to make her happy. He also said he would always protect her. She told him the most she wanted to know was, if he was true, and he replied he had said all he could find language to express that he was true, and just before he left he said : “If I live I will make you happy.” Prior to this time he had several times told her he didn’t believe in long engagements. During the time the defendant was paying these attentions to the plaintiff she did not receive attentions or visits from other young men.
Upon the part of the defendant much of this evidence was denied, and other circumstances were shown from which it is argued by the counsel for the defendant that there was no promise to marry in substance or intent, and that plaintiff did not suppose or have any right to suppose that an engagement was made or offered.
We are of the opinion that a ease was presented such as was.
Our attention is called to several exceptions to rulings upon the admission or rejection of evidence. We, however, do not find, in them any sufficient cause for reversal. The evidence of the. conversation as to the trip to Europe was proper. It related to the subject in controversy, and its bearing and effect were to be considered along with the other evidence in the case. The same may be.said as to the conversation about going to New York. After the plaintiff had narrated the conversation as to the trip to Europe, she was asked the question : “ Now, you may state how you understood "that at the time.” This was objected" to by the counsel for defendant as incompetent and improper and as a conclusion and opinion, and the objection was overruled and exception taken: The witness partially answered' when, on motion of defendant’s counsel, the answer so far as made was stricken put. The following then occurred: “ The court: What did you understand he meant by that ? A. I thought he meant that he wished me to accompany him when he went abroad. Q. As what ? A.. As his wife. Defendant’s counsel: I move to strike that out as, improper and incompetent, and as a conclusion and opinion. Thecourt: The motion is denied.” Exception was taken. Shortly after wards, before the direct examination of" the witness was closed, she was asked a similar question as to what she understood by the saying of the defendant, “I will always protect you.” This being bjected to, the court said: “I think, upon consideration, that the proper, rule is not to allow a party to testify how she understood it, but allow the fact to.be put in, and the jury to say what would' be the fair meaning of the phrase. I will strike out the evidence which was given before as to how she understood the expression, that she-was asked about which she testified to; I will exclude’ this.” The defendant objected and excepted to the striking out., of thesv-idence, as. he might lose the benefit of his previous excep
It was not error to receive the evidence of the mother of plaintiff that she knew her daughter was making preparations for getting married. Wilcox v. Green, 23 Barb., 639 . The plaintiff had already testified to the same thing without objection. It was at least competent on the question of damages. And so was the evidence of the condition in health of the plaintiff after the breach .and in consequence thereof. The information which led the plaintiff to ask explanation of the defendant in May, 1888, was derived by plaintiff from her mother. It was not material from whom the mother received the information. Nor was the talk between her and her father or her counsel before the commencement of the suit. The plaintiff at the commencement of her evidence was asked the question: “ What is your business now, and how do you gain your livelihood?” This was objected to as incompetent and improper, and objection overruled and exception. The answer was, By giving music lessons.” It was proper to ask the witness what was her occupation or business. If the balance of the question ■called for improper evidence as to her property, that objection should have been specified, and not being so, is not available. Simson v. Chadwick, 20 W. Dig., 35 ; Hochrieter v. People, 2 Abb. Dec., 363. In Vanderpool v. Richardson, 52 Mich., 339 , it was held proper for the plaintiff to show she had no property.
The defendant’s counsel also claims errors in the court refusing to charge certain requests. The record shows that, at the close of the charge, the defendant’s counsel requested the court to charge nine propositions, which are set out. At the end of these, the following appears. “ The court. I decline to charge the requests made by the defendant’s counsel other than I have charged. Defendant’s counsel excepted to the refusal of the court to charge as requested.” This exception is not sufficiently definite to be available, within the ruling in many cases. Smedis v. Brooklyn, etc., 88 N. Y., 14 ; Magee v. Badger, 34 id., 247. Many of the requests were in substance charged. Others referred to detached portions of the evidence and asked for a charge upon the effect of those alone. The court in its charge laid down the law of the case fully as favorably to the defendant as he was entitled to have it. In the refusals to charge we find no error prejudicial to the defendant.
Judgment and order affirmed, with costs.
Hardin, R. J., concurs.